SELAH HOUSE COUNSELING
A Refuge from Life's Storms
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of those depths.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
WHAT TO EXPECT AT YOUR VISIT
Walking alongside you on your journey
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Child Mental Health Specialist in Washington State. I counsel people ages two to hundred in aspects of their lives from creating a strong parent/infant bond to adolescent struggles to saying goodbye at life's end. I see individuals, children, adolescents, couples, and families.
My approach is all about the whole-person. I take into consideration one's physical health, social, spiritual and cultural issues as well as mental and emotional well-being. Your course of counseling is set-up to meet your individual situation, needs, and goals. This is your journey. I come alongside you to help ease the burden, encourage you to keep going, and give you a place to rest when you are weary.
I am a mother of three neurodivergent children, including autistic twins, and step-mother of two wonderful now young adults, a devoted wife and a working professional. My life gives me insight into blended families, parenting multiples, the teen years, stress, post-partum issues, child developmental issues, trying to balance life, finances, jobs, marriage, and sense of self.
SERVICES I OFFER
With You Every Step of the Way
FAMILY THERAPY
Here For You:
> Parent/Child Communication
> Navigating Challenges of Adolescent years
> Parent Coaching and Education
Learning to become one again:
> Effective Communication Styles
> Healthy Conflict Resolution Skills
> Turning Toward Each Other Instead of Away
COUPLES THERAPY
INDIVIDUAL THERAPY
Individualized Treatment Goals:
> Setting Specific and Attainable Goals
> Exploring What Does Healing Truly Look Like
New Clients:
Currently (as of September 2025), I do have a waiting list for new clients. You may inquire about my services by filling out the contact form or by emailing me at: charlinearends@selahhousecounseling.com.
Current Clients:
You may request appointments, cancel and reschedule appointments as well as complete paperwork by logging into your client portal at:
https://www.therapyportal.com/p/selahhouse/">Client Portal</a>
Crisis Support:
If you are experiencing suicidal or homicidal thoughts, substance addiction, another type of mental health crisis, please reach out to one of the following resources:
1. National Suicidal Hotline: 9-8-8
2. Snohomish County Mental Health Crisis Line: 1-800-584-3578
3. Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
4. The Trevor Project: (crisis line specifically for LGBTQ youth):
> Call: 866-488-7386
> Text: START to 678-678
5. National Runaway Hotline: 1-800-786-2929
6. NAMI Teen Youth and Young Adult Helpline: 1-800-950-6264
7. National Part Helpline: 1-855-427-2736
8. TEENLINK: 866-833-6546 you can ask to speak to a peer from 6pm-10pm
9. VA Veterans Crisis Line:
> Dial 9-8-8 and then press 1
> Text: 838255
> 1-800-273-8255, press 1
10. To Write Love on Her Arms: www.twloha.com
CONTACT ME
2106 114th Ave. NE Lake Stevens, WA 98258
Phone: 425-923-9053
Fax: 425-426-0968
